Silencing the Noises Within: How to Navigate Anxiety, Grief, and Depression with Mindfulness and Resilience, Inspired by One Man's Journey from Collapse to Clarity by A.W HiyasatMy rating: 5 of 5 stars
Silencing the Noises Within - How to Navigate Anxiety, Grief, and Depression with Mindfulness and Resilience, Inspired by One Man’s Journey from Collapse to Clarityby A.W. Hiyasat; 162pp.
In modern world it is difficult to be a man, the world expects men to suffer silently, not express emotions, be stoic, and yet suffer innumerable insults, injuries, and humiliation, even when one is dealing with personal loss and tragedy. There are few resources for men to knock on and seek help, in fact men seeking emotional help are often ridiculed and emasculated. In this scenario A.W. Hiyasat brings out his memoir-cum-guide aimed at men undergoing anxiety, depression, or dealing with personal loss. Appropriately titled Silencing the Noises Within, the seven-chapter, volume spread across 162 pages provides important insights into dealing with life’s challenges particularly psychological ones that are not visible to everyone.
The author, A.W. Hiyasat is a multi-faceted personality with impressive credentials including CPA, financial analyst, and entrepreneur, currently a doctoral student. He has written several books on different subjects including entrepreneurship, self-employment, tax strategies, among others. He took it upon himself to help other men by writing this book after working through personal tragedies in career, family, etc. His professed goal for this book is to help readers with honest, and heartfelt insights about dealing with personal loss, career, and mental health struggles.
“I’m telling this story because men are dying. Literally. We kill ourselves at rates three to four times higher than women (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2025). Yet, we’re the last to ask for help with depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue. From boyhood, we learn that vulnerability means weakness, that emotional pain should be swallowed, and that needing help means you’ve failed as a man,” writes Hiyasat in the introduction of the book. Further along he explains that by putting his story out in the open he “feels like walking naked down main street.” He is willing to do if his story can help even one man recognize and treat the mental health issues. Hiyasat impressed upon men facing mental health challenges and personal tragedies to seek help, to remember that they are not alone and finally that it is not cowardice or failure, but courage to seek help.
As I read the book chapter six seemed to personally speak to me. Titled ‘Rewriting your story – finding authentic purpose.’ In this chapter Hiyasat speaks about life beyond paycheck or career. Traditional beliefs about success, wealth, corporate leadership positions, the fancy vehicles, glitzy homes, etc don’t really mean satisfaction in life or feeling fulfilled. These are not one’s identity, rather just exterior pillars that we place around ourselves. The importance of feeling engaged or living life is not achieving boardroom success but being present and involved in the lives of our loved ones, helping people around us, maintaining our health, among others.
Overall this memoir is replete with lessons for living a better, more authentic life. I would recommend this to anyone feeling lost in career or facing challenges in life, be it at graduate school or at home. Read this book and I am sure parallels can be drawn from the author’s experiences with our life. That may be the catalyst needed to redirect your life towards more presence, engagement, and authenticity.
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